FRIENDSHIP

What do you understand by friendship???

For me friendship is feeling of love and affection of one person for another. This feeling of love must be share, otherwise friendship cannot be possible.

People said that a friend in need is a friend in deed. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. BUT most of them desert at the time of diversity. We can know the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. All others will leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors.

Vanity is another element which can breaks friendship. Everybody has self-respect, when a person tries to criticize his friend their friendship is affected. So friendship must be treated very delicately.

Very often some hypocrites pretend to be friends. They are most dangerous than avowed enemies. By telling soft words they bring enormous ruin to us. A true friend never exploits, he/she rather surrenders.

In friendship also have many fair-weathered friends. They terminate their friendly tie as soon as their interests are fulfilled. It is very difficult to find a true friend because friendship between two or more persons is short-lived.

So here I can conclude that good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path BUT evil friends ruin us completely. 

We have to make our own decision who we want to friend with. 

So made a good choice! XOXO

How to find a soul mate?

First of all I want to tell the meaning of soul mate to you all. 

What is soul mate?? 

Soul mate is like a best friend but more. It’s the one person in the world who knows you better than anyone else. That someone who makes you better person. NO, actually they don’t make you a better person. You do that by yourself because they inspire you. A soul mate is someone you carry with you forever. Its one person, who knew you, accepted you and believed in you before anyone else did or when no one else would. And no matter what happens, you’ll always love them and nothing could ever change that.

Firstly to find a soul mate you may try internet dating. More and more people today are finding their soul mate online and doing so quickly and effectively.

Secondly, get yourself out there. If you are expert to find your soul mate at the some point, chances are you going to have to take part in the exciting activity known as dating. BUT dating can take a lot of forms and with a little bit of confidence, self respect and creativity can help you find the person of your dreams.

-Ask your friend if they know anyone who might be a good fit for you.

-Attend functions, social and reunions.

-Make your public profile interesting, engaging and honest.

-When you decide to meet your date in person, pick a public place and keep the first date short.

Last but not least, don’t keep making the same mistakes. Dating is tough. Finding person who call soul mate is the one who we feel understands us perfectly and meets all of our needs can take a years. That’s why it’s important to keep growing as we date and learn from our dating mistakes.

-Don’t put yourself in abusive relationships.

-Don’t fall back in with the same person you've dated and broken up with six or seven times.

-Accept people for who they are, not who you want them to be.

Hope you guys will enjoy the tips that we share with you. XOXO

local delicacy and traditional cuisine...

yawwwww ! whatssss uppp... today we would like to share famous cuisine at Terengganu... as we know, Terengganu have so many delicious cuisine.. so, lets enjoy the post buddyzzz... !

Malaysia is always famous for its variety of foods. Although the whole country is like a huge dining place, there are still foods ‘belongs’ to certain places or places that stand out as representing some particular cooking or foods. Due to the geographical location and history back ground, apart from cuisines which representing the three major races, Terengganu food has shown the influence of Thai culture and taste.

MALAY CUISINE

The Malay cooking always has their homegrown ingredients such as coconut milk. Famous Malay food at Terengganu is nasi dagang. nasi dagang is mixes of rice and glutinous rich with coconut milk added once it cooked. He rice is eaten with tuna curry and light vegetable pickles.

Second famous Malay food at Terengganu is keropok.keropok is cracker made of fish which is ground to a paste then with sago before it is steamed and later deep fried. It is the snack instead of a proper meal and sometimes is served as the snack before meal.

Satar is another fish snack in Terengganu Malay cuisine. It is mixture of pounded fish, shallots and ginger wrapped in banana leaf, pierce of few by 1 single bamboo stick then barbecue over low fire. The best stalls are by the road of Chendering, sold by an old couple in a Ford Vargon or Warung Che Wan at Kuala Kemaman if not, you can try your luck at Central Market.

CHINESE CUISINE

Chinese cuisine seems to have endless choices and various ways of preparing. Each of these is stem from the different parts of china from which the early immigrants originated. Chinese food is sometimes categorized into hawker food and restaurant food. Hawker food is always precooked and simpler in the preparation whereas restaurant food always involves more complicated way of preparation and serving. Famous Chinese hawker food in Terengganu is:

Hainan chicken rice. It is one of the most popular everyday meals served in food stall. This chicken and rice dish is garnished with cucumbers, scallions and cilantro, sometimes served with a side of soup from the broth.

Char kway teow. Fried flat noodles are stir fried in a little lard with shrimp, cockles, bean sprouts, egg, chives and made spicy hot to taste with chili paste.

Ais kacang. The shaved ice dessert is a favorite local dessert especially in a hot sunny afternoon. It is also called ABC.

Loh hon ko. Loh hon ko is the cold drink which is boiled with dried mangos teen and served in either warm or cold is believed to have cooling effects to the body.

INDIAN CUISINE

Though Indian is the minority in Terengganu, there are still places to hunt for good Indian food. Famous Indian food in Terengganu is:

Nasi biryani. Nasi biryani is main course rice with dish served, especially on special occasions like weddings, where this saffron flavored steamed rice is made aromatic with Indian spices.

Mutton kurma or mutton curry. This food is a mild but flavorful curry with lamb or mutton cooked in a medley of spices.

Indian mee goreng.  This food is fresh yellow noodles are stir fried with mutton or lamb, vegetables’, tomato ketchup and spices, giving this fried noodles dish a distinctly unique Indian flavor.

TERENGGANU traditional games

As we know Terengganu have many traditional games and people know about these games. Many tourists come to Terengganu to see these traditional games and they want to know how to play and how to make these traditional games.. So, today.. we would like to share with you the famous traditional games at Terengganu... Enjoyy buddyz... !

Famous traditional games at Terengganu are:

Kite:  Partly due to the specific location of facing the South China Sea which brings to this land wind that can make a kite fly as high as one wishes, flying a kite in the clear blue sky of Terengganu was once played by farmers on leveled ground after post-harvesting season, but it now attracts people from all walks of life. Over the years, kite festivals have encouraged creativity in kite-making, thus resulting in kites that are designed in the shape of a fish, cat, caterpillar, and bird but the famous huge moon-kite (wau bulan) remains as popular as it was years ago.

Congkak:  Congkak is a game of wit played by womenfolk in ancient times. This game is usually played by 2 girls sitting face to face on the ground, using rubber seeds, saga or small marbles as the seeds. Seeds are points for the players. Total seed used depends on the number of pit in the congkak set. The game will carry on till all the pits on one side are empty. The winner is the player who captured the most seeds.

Sepak raga ratus:  It is usually played by 6-12 adult male in the field in evening. The players will gather in a circle and game will begin with one of the player throw the rattan ball to another participant who stands opposite of him. Receiver can either kick, head or t chest the ball for several time before sending it to another player as he wishes. It will be more interesting when any of the players able to keep the ball for a longer time without falling to the ground.

Bola cetong:  This game is played by 6 to 12 boys and girls in the village. The participants will be evenly divided into 2 groups, i.e. the Cans Keeper and the Thrower. To decide which group will be the starter, a simple vote will be carried out. The Cans Keeper will arrange the cans in pyramid on a piece of wood. When this is done, members in the Thrower side will throw a ball as to fall the cans. Each of them is given three chances to do so. Until all the cans have fallen to the ground, the Keeper will take turn to throw to ball to Thrower members who are sorting and arranging the fallen cans back onto the wood.

Tapak gajah:  A pair of coconut shells piecing with robe will be used in this game. Each group will consist of 2 participants. The first participant will ‘wear’ the coconut shell on foot and holding the robe in hand then walk to his group member. When reaches the destination, the shell will be given to the friend and the latter will do the same until. Group that reaches the ending point the first will be the winner.

That all from us yaww.. ! hope this post had give some information to you about the traditional games at Terengganu.. and thanks for reading our blog.. do comment about your favourite traditional games below... thank you.. XOXO ! 

how to be a TOUR GUIDE ?

hi !! we meet again ... today, we would like to share tips on how to be a tour guide... We want to tell you how to become a good tour guide when you handle your group of customer. This step also important to us because we are in tourism industry and we can apply this in our future job. So, enjoy the post and thank for spending your time read our blog... 

Step to become a tour guide is:

Get inspired: think about what kinds of tours you would like to lead. You must be creative and consider setting such as gardens, natural history museums, government building, rainforest, and more.

Research certified schools for tour guide: a certificate is not necessary for becoming a tour guide, but it will make you stand a cut above the competition when applying for jobs. You can take classes in leadership and team building, public speaking and the ethical code that will govern your work as a tour guide.

 Study diligently: you must pass all classes successfully in order to receive your certificate from the tour guide training school you enrolled in.

 Apply for a job with a tour company of your choice: you can make a research to find out what kind of company might be right for you. You can obtain positions in amusement parks, historical sites and in foreign countries. 

Complete the interview process: for this you must prepare for the interview process because you can take advantage of any mock interviews offered by your certified school.

Educate yourself on the area in which you will be working: you will need to be familiar with the area’s history, culture, landmark, and other features of the tours you will be conducting.

Consider your personality carefully: while tour guide may have to know many facts about the area in which they are working, they also must be capable of communicating those facts.

that's all from us.. we hope tips above are going to help you becoming a good tou guide.. we'll be meeting again in next post.. once again thanks ! XOXO 

Tips after break up!!!

Yawww... whatsss uppp ! hi ! we meet again in 3rd post ! well, as usual, thanks for spending your time reading our blog.. yeahh ! and for third post, we are going to share with you tips after break up.. So, lets enjoy the post !

Break ups can be so rough.. No one really wants to go through them.. The loss of relationship can bring on intense heartache and stress.. If you are not strong enough to face the break ups, you may suffer from depression, not going to eat, lock yourself alone in the room, afraid to fall in love again and even worse you may think of suicidal. Ohh.. please! never ever EVERR ever think of suicide. That was never solve the problem. Lets us give you tips on how to get over a break up !

1. Cry all you want. Let the tears flow, it's healthy you are releasing the pain. But, make sure... that you will never cry again in the future...

2. Do something to help yourself heal. Exercise, read or watch some movies. Pick things that you know will be fun or beneficial and do them. Don't wait for the mood to come over you, take one action and then take another. So, that you can forget about the pain because of the break up.

3. Find emotional support. Hang out with friends. Be more socialize, meet new friends. Find someone who can you talk to with such as family or close friends. Dont keep your problem alone.

4. Don't be a doormat. If your ex continues to call you or simply won't go away, tell them you can't heal with them around and ask them to keep their distance. If they are harassing or threatening you, it is best to call law enforcement for information and advice.

5. Keep yourself busy. Try to spend you freetime with fun and beneficial things such as recreation or went for holiday.

6. Don't try to mask your pain by trying to find a replacement. The term "rebound relationship" happen when you use another person to fill the gap that's been created by the ending of a relationship. These transitional connections can feel healing in the short term, but if you don't process your pain appropriately you will not be able to be in a fully committed partnership.

7. Trust your feelings. Even if you were taken by surprise by the breakup, your inner voice is telling you something. Listen carefully and you will hear that it will all be OK. You just have to let your feelings guide you.

8. Take your time. Believe that with a little time, patience and support you will feel better and find love again.

9. Remove memory triggers. There are all kinds of things that remind you of your ex––a song, a smell, a sound, a place. Once the grieving period has had some time to process, don't dwell on painful feelings or memories. Let the past being the past.

10. Let go of the negative emotions. Understand that there is no benefit in holding on to heartache, regret, and hatred toward another person. Realize that although it is over, your relationship with that person was unique and special in a lot of ways. You can congratulate yourself for being brave enough to take a risk and fall in love and encourage your heart that even though love didn't work out this time, there will be a next time.

 

Thats all tips how to get over a break ups from us, hope it will help you going through breaksup. And, thank you for spending your time read our blog. XOXO.  



one direction !

hi uols... ! thank for spending ur time to read our second post.. for our second post, we are going to write about.....

ONE DIRECTIONNNNN !!!

do you know who are they ? well, for those who dont, we would like to give you some information about one direction. Enjoy the posts buddyz :)

One Direction are an English-Irish pop boyband in London, consisting of members :

.Niall Horan.Zayn Malik.Liam Payne.Harry Styles.Louis Tomlinson.

They signed with Simon Cowell's record label after being formed and finishing the British televised singing competition The X Factor in 2010. The reason why we love so much about one direction is because of their beautiful voices and of course their cute faces.. hihi.. Let us introduce you the band members of one Direction. :)

NIALL

Niall Horan James

13 September 1993

Mullingar County Westmeath, Ireland

ZAYN

Zain Javadd Zayn Malik

12 January 1993

Bradford, Yorkshire, England

LIAM

Liam James Payne

29 August 1993

Wolverhampton, West Midlands, England

HARRY

Harry Edward Styles

1 February 1994

Holmes Chapel, Cheshire, England

LOUIS

Louis William Tomlinson

24 December 1991

Doncaster, South Yorkshire, England

The video we posted above are title 'Little things' sing by One Direction ! This is one of our favourite songs from one direction.. Please ; enjoy the songs :)

So, guys.. what do you think about one direction ? are they good ? cute ? and also have beautiful voices right ? Do comment your opinion about one direction below.. and once again.. thank you for spending your time read our blog.. XOXO

INTRODUCTIONNNNNNNNNNNN

hi guys !! welcome to our blog ! weareincredibleinvisible.blogspot.com. thanks for spending your time to visit our blog... first of all, let us introduce ourselves to you guys ! 
This blog owned by Fatin, Hanny and Ily...
We are student BACHELOR OF SCIENCE (HONS) (TOURISM MANAGEMENT) UiTM Kampus Bandaraya Melaka.. 
 This blog was created because of our assignment for subject 
Tourism Information Technology : HTT 560... 
So, for the first post.. let us introduce ourselves... 

Name FATIN NASIRAH BINTI WAHAB 
also known as FATIN..
D.O.B  30 January 1991 at Terengganu... 
She came from Kuala Terengganu.. 


Name ZATI HANINI BINTI ABD RAHIM 
also known as HANNY 
D.O.B 30 December 1991 at Pontian 
She came from Johor Bahru 

Name ILI AMANINA BINTI MERZUKI 
also known as ILY 
D.O.B 15 August 1990 at Kota Bharu
She came from Kelantan

Thats all about us.. We hope you guys will enjoy reading our blog and lastly thank you for spending your time here... XOXO